SharkHunter wrote: Would it be stealthy though? We're not told that the reaction thrusters are extremely visible because they're the tail of a chemical reaction, for example, but keep in mind that accelerating any quantity of any kind of molecule significantly is adding insane amounts of energy to them, that is, the molecules themselves aren't particle shielded and stealthed.
I think ANY form of particle thrust would end up having the "tail of a comet" type problem, and comets aren't even travelling at a super-significant fraction of C.
I do think that the pressed ejecta would light up brilliantly. If they're moving hundreds of thousands or millions of tons of shipping by inflicting an opposite force on a bit of gas, the bit of gas is going to undergo womdiginous acceleration.
The tractors should be very to entirely stealthy though: spider drives work by dragging themselves along by tractor to the alpha wall, so if tractors were bright and shiny, so would be the spider drive ships. That said, if tractors can be detected at all, that may be one of the better ways to try to detect a spider drive unit.